By Mike McManus
Last week the Census announced that America's poverty
rate had increased to 14.3 percent in 2009 with 44 million people, up
from 13.2 in 2008 and 40 million people in poverty.
America's
press blamed America's high unemployment rate for the problem. However,
though the jobless rate doubled in a year from 5 to 10 percent, poverty
increased only one percent.
The primary cause of poverty is not
joblessness but marriage - or rather, marriage absence. Indeed, the
Heritage Foundation published data last week: "Marriage: America's No. 1
Weapon Against Childhood Poverty."
It notes, "Marriage Drops the
Probability of Child Poverty by 82 percent."
That's stunning.
However, 36.5 percent of families headed by a single mother were poor in
2008 while only 6.4 percent of married, two-parent families are poor.
Yet
the marriage rate has plunged 51 percent since 1970.
Heritage
notes that children of unwed parents have soared eight-fold since 1960
when only five percent of births were out-of-wedlock, to 40.6 percent in
2008. A third of America's children live in unmarried families,
seven-tenths of whom are poor.
Marriage absence should be a major
political issue in the current campaigns for governors, state
legislators and even Congress.
Why? "Marriage absence is driving
federal and state deficits," says David Usher, President of the Center
for Marriage Policy in St. Louis.
"Health care coverage, personal
bankruptcy and home loan defaults are infrequent problems for married
couples. Children raised in intact families are the last to get in
trouble, flunk out of school, join a gang, have babies, become chronic
substance abusers, or grow up to be criminals."
What can be done
to reverse these trends? Heritage suggests federal strategies:
1.
Reduce anti-marriage penalties in welfare programs. Why should the
government reward single parenthood with welfare, food stamps, free
medical care, housing subsidies, etc? Robert Rector of Heritage
estimates that "The cost of subsidizing single parenthood is $280
billion. The people who receive large subsidies should no longer get
one-way handouts." He asserts those subsidies should require full-time
work. Welfare Reform took that strategy, reducing welfare rolls 60
percent.
2. Require welfare offices to provide factual data on
the value of marriage, and require federally funded birth control
clinics to provide information on benefits of marriage.
By
contrast, the new Center for Marriage Policy is recommending initiatives
that could be taken by state government.
Missouri State Rep.
Cynthia Davis, the Center's Executive Director, says present law
provides "perverse incentives" to destroy rather than preserve marriage.
For example, she tells of a woman who was "poisoned by her friends to
get out of the marriage. They said she could get custody of their child,
which comes with a big lump of money, plus she got her husband to pay
her lawyer's fees. Their child was a teenager who did not want to live
with her mom, but her dad, which she did. But the mom got a court order
for him to pay child support to her anyway."
To put it
differently, the state provides incentives for marriage destruction, not
marriage preservation. Hundreds of studies prove that couples with
enduring marriages are happier, healthier, live longer, and have more
sex and better sex. (See "A Case for Marriage" by Maggie Gallagher and
Linda Waite.)
Rep. Davis introduced a bill requiring that
couples with children agree on the divorce, unless fault (adultery,
abuse) is proven - a reform of No Fault Divorce I have called Mutual
Consent. Why? She says, "It is simple. If there are children, more
people are involved. Mutual Consent would breed more stability for
society in general." The bill did not pass, but she was term-limited and
will be out of office next year. As the Center's Director, she can
pursue legislation as a private citizen, yet with a knowledge of people
and issues that only a former legislator would have.
A second
reform that could cut the divorce rate is to require divorcing couples
to live apart for a year if there is Mutual Consent, and two years if
contested. Maryland, Illinois and Pennsylvania have such a law and their
divorce rate is HALF that of 9 states with No requirement to live apart
(NH. TN, ID, FL, OR, NM, WY, NM, and KY). Why? If couples have to live
apart for a year, many couples decide to reconcile before the divorce
takes effect.
David Usher, Center President, charges "The welfare
state is eating Missouri alive. The cost to taxpayers of marriage
absence is at least $1.3 billion per year. A sensible marriage policy
could reduce illegitimacy and divorce by half. The deficits will abate
when marriage is restored."
----Michael J. McManus is a
syndicated columnist writing on "Ethics & Religion". He is President
& Co-Chair of Marriage Savers. He lives with his wife in Potomac,
MD.
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